Why Are There So Many Homeless People?

Homelessness isn’t something that just happened overnight in the United States. It’s existed here for decades, although many people have tended to look the other way when they passed a homeless person on the street.

A lot of people have assumed that if someone is homeless that he or she is either a mentally ill person who was released from a mental hospital, a veteran who could not cope with the atrocities of war, or a drug addict. Although there are people who meet these criteria, these are all stereotypes that just are not universally true.

In a survey conducted by the United States Conference of Mayors in 1992 it was found that 41% of the homeless population had been substance abusers and that 28% of them were mentally ill. Therefore, the majority of people who are without a home are neither drug addicts nor are they mentally unbalanced.

Many of them were, and are, people just like you and me.

Homelessness does not have any boundaries. It affects people of every religion, race, creed, and age.

Many of the people who are now homeless have just fallen upon hard times. We all know that the economy has been in the dumps for years, now, and that there is no relief in sight. So this should not come as a shock.

In its narrowest sense, the basic cause of homelessness is one’s inability to pay for an apartment or a home because of an inadequate income.

People who have lost their jobs and have been found that it is very difficult, if nearly impossible to find another means of employment. It now takes an unemployed person approximately forty weeks to find a job. And if they receive unemployment benefits they are often not enough to cover expenses.

In addition, although unemployment benefits have been extended in many states to ninety-nine weeks, many people have already used up their allocation. In many cases, the amount that they did receive was not enough to keep a roof over their heads.

If you are living from one paycheck to the next then the reality is that you, too, may find yourself without a home at some point in the future.

As many as three and one half million Americans are homeless at some point in the year. Almost one third of these people are children. And more than three hundred thousand children are homeless on any given night.

And this is happening in the richest nation in the world. Perhaps the people who support Occupy Wall Street are right.

More than half of the people who have lost their homes are families with kids. And many of them found themselves in that situation because of some event or series of life altering events that were unplanned for and came by unexpectedly. Those are the primary causes of homelessness in America. It is not due to a mental or physical disability or some major traumatic event.

Most people become homeless because of the loss of a loved one, the loss of a job, divorce, domestic violence, or family disputes.

Although mental illness is not the primary cause of homelessness, many of the people who find themselves living on the streets do suffer from depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, some untreated mental illness, and/or physical disabilities.

When someone is living on their financial edge (people who are close to the poverty level) what many people consider to be everyday occurrences could be enough to put them out on the street. Things such as a vehicle that breaks down, some unpaid parking tickets or a canceled automobile insurance policy could be enough to put them over that terrible edge.

For example, if a family is having a hard time keeping up with their bills and one of the members of the family contracts a serious illness, taking care of that person may deplete any savings that they have. And when their funds are depleted they could very well find that they are no longer able to keep up with the rent or the mortgage payments.

While politicians are bailing out banks who don’t care about anything other than their bottom lines, many people are still losing their homes to foreclosure.

In addition, there have been devastating hurricanes and tornadoes that have destroyed homes or left them too costly to repair.

The newly homeless are challenged with trying to figure out how they will be able to return to their previous lives. As a stop gap measure many of them have turned to homeless shelters across the nation. They are hoping to find temporary shelter clothing, food and services in these shelters.

Homeless services have come to rely on homeless shelter software to collect family and individual information, track any progress that has been made, coordinate services and generate reports.

Stop Trying To Rescue Your Child

It is natural for us as parents to want to protect our kids. Call it maternal or paternal instinct, it doesn’t matter; we all want to help our kids whenever something “goes wrong.”

But are we doing more harm than good? Our kids are learning patterns of behaviour and habits that they will continue to use for the rest of their lives. If they don’t have the skills as a child to overcome challenges then how can they be expected to as an adult.

After all we won’t be always there to pick up the pieces. Of course common sense has to prevail and if something has happened that is extreme and needs an adult to take care of it, then absolutely as parents we should.

Yet that doesn’t happen all the time. Every day our kids are presented with situations and challenges that have the ability to empower them. Think about how you feel when you solve a challenge… you feel pretty good about yourself don’t you. You had the opportunity to see how amazing you are. As parents we should be giving that same opportunity to our kids, rather than taking it away from them. No matter how good our intentions truly are.

When my son was 13 he studied French at school. As part of their assessment process they were to do an oral presentation. It was recorded so the teacher could listen to it later, to ensure a fair mark was given.

This particular year there was a technical difficulty with the recorder. The solution – my son and his class had to re-do the presentation. At my son’s school they are very focused on the students learning responsibility, so the announcement was left on his Year’s noticeboard. It is explained to them at the start of the school year: they need to be looking there everyday as important notices are posted daily.

My son didn’t read the notice board. He missed the opportunity to do the oral component which would mean he would get a zero mark.

He called me from school telling me about his predicament. I had an idea about what he could do. I could even possibly have called the school myself. But that wasn’t empowering him.

Instead I asked him, what he thought he could do to fix it. He said he could try and get in touch with his French teacher. I agreed and said he should do it before leaving school.

He managed to speak with his French teacher who wasn’t very happy but was pleased he took the initiative to try and do something about it. She said she would speak to the head of the language department and get back to him in the morning.

The result: He was able to re-do the oral presentation.

But it was more than that. He learnt that day he has the ability to overcome challenges. His self-esteem rocketed that day.

Next time your child is faced with a challenge, instead of stepping in and taking control ask them what they think they can do to solve it. Your child might surprise themselves and you. And the biggest benefit is they will believe in themselves and start realising they have amazing capabilities.

How does it get any better than that?

Felicity Baker is a mindset expert, author and speaker who specialises in empowering children and the child within us all. Her website Joyful Horizons for Kids is the #1 Single Resource For Parents On Creating Strong and Positive Self-Esteem In Their Kids Today and In The Future.

Felicity’s “NO THEORY ONLY” philosophy means that everything she recommends has already been “tested” with her own children and the results are positive and proven.

Felicity herself lived with clinical anxiety since she was aged 5. After 30 years of living with non-existent self-esteem and negative self-belief her own life was almost literally destroyed, when she found herself in a hospital emergency ward unable to swallow anything including her own saliva. She has lived on both sides of the fence and understands the importance of having high self-esteem and how it effects every area of our lives. Today she helps parents create a brighter future for their kids and help them create their own phenomenal family.

Many Believe a Memory Book or Personal Journal Is for Teens

However, important events in your life, at the time they are fresh, provide a link to your children and grandchildren. Memories fade, but a dated notation of your thoughts just before your wedding, at the birth of a child, a new house, or a cross-country move can enhance your family relationships in later years.

About three years ago, my mother at age ninety-one, decided to recall special events in her life. She asked me to compose a journal. Memories of her early life were fairly vivid. However, when she was a busy wife and mother, she could not recall many events. I solicited information from my siblings, but their memories had faded as well. Sadly a gap appears in her journal.

I decided it would be different for my family. I have not kept a detailed journal, but I did jot down thoughts of events and kept them in a file folder. The notes have jogged my memory so that I can add more details. I am in the process of collating them in a time line. My children are anxious to read the finished memory journal. I plan to complete it to about five years ago and add more in the years to come. A simple ring binder makes it simple to continually update it.

Memories garnered from your siblings or your early years and later, your husband’s thoughts will make your memory book more interesting and exciting. Photos can be incorporated as well as copies of your birth certificate and marriage license will add to the legacy your leave your children.

Our lives are busy and it is often difficult to add another task, but a spiral notebook with dates and jottings of events will aid you in writing your journal later. It only takes a few moments and will be invaluable later on.

When your grandchild asks a question about the past, you will be able to give him amusing and informative answers.

You don’t need writing classes. The basics of sentence structure, a dictionary and a sense of humor will infuse your journal with memories to entertain your family for years.

Place the spiral notebook beside your easy chair. While relaxing in the evening, jot down any memorable event. Some days there will be nothing to write. Don’t worry. You are not composing a tome. Even if you skip a week or so, you can easily catch up.

Hidden Home Hazards – An Ounce of Prevention

We only have to fall once, touch an electrical wire once, use a power tool improperly once or use the gas grill the wrong way once to spend the rest of our life in pain. Sadly, nearly 50,000 homeowners die unintentionally every year from hazards that are both hidden and obvious. Millions more suffer disabling injuries every year. In fact you are ten times more likely to die at home than you are at work. The old adage “An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure” when it comes to home safety cannot be overstated.

The average homeowner expects home safety to be delivered through the safety features of the products they purchase and engineering design of the home-building and fire codes. However, more than 75% of all injuries are the result of our behavior-the decision we make to use a chair for instance, rather than a ladder to change a light bulb. Chairs are designed for sitting on not standing on and using the right tool for the job is one of the simple ways to prevent an injury. To get a sense of our inability to recognize hazards and make good decisions just watch an episode of “America’s Funniest Home Videos”.

Falls, electrocution, fire, chemical exposure and other hazards are all present in the home. Those homeowners that die every year likely did not get up at the start of the day thinking about how unsafe their home is and the actions they need to take to make it safer. To combat the hazards that a home presents we must work on improving our safety mindset which consists of our knowledge and attitude. Once our mindset is improved good behavior will follow. We need to seek-out resources to help improve our hazard recognition skills and then routinely and proactively inspect our home to keep the hazards in-check. To really hit safety out of the park the entire family must be part of the solution. Kids and adults need to be committed to practicing safety and watching-out for each other. If the old adage that “safety is just common sense” were true, then maybe so many homeowners wouldn’t die every year.

One of the easiest ways to start to practice safety at home is to apply our workplace safety knowledge away from work. Nearly every employer delivers some form of safety message whether it is about disaster preparedness, first aid, fire drills or other specific hazards. In fact global companies such as DuPont and Owens Corning have very active off-the-job safety programs. These programs demonstrate the value of the employee by caring about their wellbeing, and that of their family, away from work. The goal is to develop safety awareness into everything that we do whether it’s driving, playing or living in our home. Unfortunately it only takes one lapse of judgment to find ourselves having a really bad day.

How to Care for School Uniforms

I know what it was like to wear school uniforms, having gone to a Catholic high school that required them. You had to make sure you had multiples of everything, first of all, because it was so very easy to get those white button down shirts dirty. Multiple girls school skirts, shirts, and knee highs and tights to cover the five days a week of class. But beyond that, how they were taken care of had a lot to do with how long they lasted. It was important that I got my use out of them for at least the entire year, if not more, depending on how much I grew during the year. It’s important you get the same sort of long term use for your own kids school uniforms.

When you wash the uniforms, always make sure to check tags for any special treatment they may need. Seems like an obvious suggestion, but don’t kid yourself; we all forget these things from time to time. And shirts and bottoms can be of two different materials, especially if you have wool skirts or slacks that you bought to keep your kids warmer in the winter. The easiest way to wash school uniforms is to separate by tops and bottoms, and then by color, especially if you have white button downs. The biggest mistake I ever made was mixing a white button down with a darker blue, which caused the white to pick up some of the blue ink, ruining it.

If your kids are prone to getting stains from food or playing out in the yard, make sure you spot clean before throwing it in the washing machine. In fact, it may be a smart idea to pack a detergent/stain remover pen with them for school so that they can take care of stains right on the spot when that ketchup accidentally gets on their sleeve at lunch. It can help remove some of the stain and make it much easier to come out when everything gets thrown in the wash later.

It is best to hang dry school uniforms, especially shirts, as to keep them from shrinking and having an ill fit. If you must throw them in the dryer, do so on a low setting. Always keep shirts hanging in the closet, as this will prevent wrinkles and the extra time it’ll take to iron the shirt in the morning. If you must iron your shirt, make sure you do so without spending too much time on one place. Button downs tend to be a bit more fragile and can burn easily.

If you keep uniforms clean and take care of them the proper way, you won’t have to worry about wasting money. You’ll be able to buy just a few different options to wear and have it last at least all school year.

How Kids’ Roman Blinds Can Add Individuality To Your Child’s Nursery

A child’s nursery, to many people, can pose a challenge when it comes to decoration. The parents or guardian may feel that they need to come up with a theme, or they could worry that a certain element would not be appropriate. One design element that should be considered for the nursery is roman blinds, and there are a few benefits.

1. Adds Something Different

Although roman blinds are widely used around the world, not everybody sees them on a daily basis. For this reason, it is important for the parents to consider kids’ Roman blinds. These blinds will be seen as something new and different, not just to those living inside of the home, but visitors that come by as well. These blinds can add a sense of style that can make the living space feel more warm and inviting; because the area will be for kids, this is something important for people to keep in mind.

2. Can Be Decorated

Roman blinds do not necessarily have to stay as they are; part of putting a room for children together means making the area a little more fun and creative. When the blinds are stretched out as far as they can go, the parents or somebody that wishes to take on the task should draw an image. The image can be just about anything, so long as the parents deem it fitting and appropriate. As the child or somebody else pulls the blinds up or down, a picture will emerge that can add an element of surprise.

3. Comes In a Variety of Colours and Patterns

People do not have to paint the blinds if they do not want to have plain blinds in the nursery. Kids’ Roman blinds can come in a variety of fabrics and colours. If the parents want something bright, they can find just the right shade. If they want to have a lively and fun pattern on the roman blinds, this is also possible. They are not limited to only one or two colours, and they do not have to go with the first thing that they find on the market.

When a couple comes to find that they are going to have a baby, the feelings can be intense and unfaltering. Part of the process of preparing for the new member of the family involves creating a nursery for them. There are many things that they will have to do, and blinds are not likely at the top of the list. However true this may be, roman blinds are nonetheless something to consider for the nursery. They allow for something different and fun to be around, and they can offer a variety of colours and patterns. By looking at the benefits above, anybody will see why they should be considered.

Log Cabin Living

Foreword: Once upon a time… I lived in a log cabin on a mountaintop overlooking a peaceful valley. Abe Lincoln never had it so good. That time has passed, but the memories persist. A lucky few of you readers will remember the cabin I describe below. Many others had experiences at a family vacation home in the mountains or at the shore, and have similar memories of family get-togethers.

This essay is intended to revive and sharpen those memories as well as to describe what it was like to live in a genuine log cabin. Readers who are too young to have these experiences can find in these lines some background to the family folklore they may have heard over the years. So, read on. I hope you enjoy it and if you have recollections and experiences of your own, then by all means post an e-comment. It will add your contribution to this essay.

Origins

It was the time of World War II and I think the war was a factor in my parents’ decision to buy the cabin. My immediate family consisted of parents Adlai and Elizabeth Magee and seven children (two sons were lost). I was the youngest. Our home was in Chevy Chase, Md. Dad owned a radio store in nearby Bethesda. In the early 1940s our family had made numerous weekend visits to Braddock Heights, Md., a community of boarding houses and a locally popular amusement park. WWII meant restrictions on travel and that improved business at the little resort. Although Braddock was in decline compared to earlier decades, patronage was good enough to keep local businesses going. The park had several rides and slides, a fine merry-go-round, a roller skating rink and a miniature train to ride. A nearby swimming pool completed the amusements available. A trolley brought day visitors from nearby Frederick, five miles east. A small store doubled as a post office. Jim Crow was alive and kicking in those days. I clearly remember a sign at the entrance to the park that included the admonition, “This park is for use by white gentiles and their servants only.” I recall staying at several different boarding houses, one of which was the Coblentz Mountain House. The appeal to us was that the altitude was a blessing for me (I was prone to bronchitis) and for my Father (also troubled by respiratory problems). Alas, Braddock Heights gradually deteriorated over the succeeding years. (Braddock Heights was named after Gen. Braddock, a figure in the French and Indian War. He led a force of soldiers west along route 40, an early national highway, marching over Braddock mountain, as it came to be known.)

The Cabin

It was about 1942 when my parents decided to buy a vacation home near Braddock mountain. I was seven. The spot they selected was pretty remote. If you travel north along the crest of Braddock mountain you will be driving on Ridge road. A little over a mile up the road they bought a small, two-room, tin-roofed log cabin on three acres. The lot had a west view of Middletown valley. The Potomac river gap near Harper’s Ferry, W.Va. could be seen from a corner of the lot. There was only a scattering of houses along the road in those days. The pavement ended a hundred yards before the cabin, turning into a dirt road. Farther along the dirt road on the west side were the Clipp farm and then a small dairy farm, where, in later years, I was sent from time-to-time to buy fresh milk. I suppose my parents (particularly my Father) saw the potential that the cabin and it’s location had. To a seven-year-old it was the start of a great adventure. Dad rather grandly named the place “Catoctin Oaks,” for the four beautiful oak trees on the lot, and the Catoctin mountain chain which included Braddock. This was in the Blue Ridge mountains. I can’t shed any light on who built the cabin and when. I believe my parents bought it from the Malones, who lived just south on Ridge road and who owned many acres in the area.

The cabin itself was as bare and rustic as you can imagine. No electricity, no indoor plumbing (not even an out-house), only an outside well with a hand pump for (non-drinking) water. Heat was available from a handsome stone fireplace. The interior had a large, open area with a sleep loft above the north side. And an ample supply of snake skins. There was an attached shed on the valley side, used for cooking. The description of the inside of the cabin may sound familiar to those of you who have watched the TV show, “Little House on the Prairie.” If you recall the interior of the TV house, the layout was very much the same as the cabin: a large room on one side, a central fireplace, and sleeping areas behind the fireplace (parents below, girls above on a loft). (My wife Thelma suggested I title this essay, “Little House on the Mountain.” I took a pass on that idea.)

The lack of facilities meant two things: First, the cabin could only be used for day trips. (The woods provided an open-air out-house.) Second, Dad soon began what became an almost endless series of modifications and improvements to the cabin. But the main feature of the place was the construction. Yes, it was a real, honest-to-goodness log cabin, its walls made of pine logs with mortar-filled cracks. The attached picture shows the cabin about 1950; this is a photograph of an oil painting by my sister Elizabeth. Today the painting hangs above the fireplace in my home in Gettysburg. As soon as practicable, a well was drilled, an electric line was run in, and the “valley room,” kitchen, basement and bathroom were added. All this took time, of course. Meanwhile, we would “rough it” on visits.

Here’s an interesting anecdote: Building the Valley Room required a good bit of excavation. It so happened that Camp Detrick in Frederick housed German prisoners-of-war; the prisoners were hired out to local citizens. (I think the prisoners were captured U-boat crews.) So for a time we had a crew of young, blond workers plus an armed guard. I observed that the prisoners took special notice of my teen-aged sisters whenever the girls would show up. (Of course, there were no incidents.) This memory of the prisoners tells me that the cabin’s major modifications were completed by the end of WWII.

Eventually, the cabin became suitable for extended visits.

Cabin life

When the seasons permitted, we (my parents and I) would make the one- hour drive to spend a weekend at the cabin. In summer, stays would extend to weeks, with Dad coming up for the weekend. Our family weren’t the only ones to use the cabin. Aunt Corona and Uncle Frank often borrowed it for parties with their friends, mostly from St. Ann’s parish in NW Washington. In fact, I’m sure mountain living gave Aunt Corona and Aunt Mary the idea to buy a lot next door and build a retirement home on Ridge road (now Tom and Jane Magee’s home).

From the late ’40s on, my parents hosted family get-togethers regularly. The cabin soon became the focus for an extended family. Hardly a Sunday went by without family or visitors stopping by and being served cocktails and dinner by my generous parents. Marilyn and Jack Barrett with their family were regular visitors Uncle Paul Magee would roar down the driveway in his Plymouth and before long he and his brother would be trading good-natured barbs. His sons, Paul, Jr., Jim and Bernard came by, families in tow. The Renehan cousins visited from Baltimore every summer; these were two ladies who always greeted me with big hugs and kisses, much to my embarrassment. I referred to them as the Kissing Cousins. “Otherwise” Burdett, the cabin’s building contractor, would occasionally show up with his family. (He earned his nickname from his frequent use of “otherwise”.) The Daly family and the Klaks from Bethesda were occasional visitors, as were other friends and relatives, many from Montgomery county.

Many of these visits were unannounced but Mother always seemed to be able to stretch the food available and make everyone happy. The best times were those summer days when we would have an outdoor feast — barbecued spare ribs (I was the designated cook at the BBQ pit), a bushel of steamed crabs, or fried chicken dinners were the favorites. After a softball game in the “front yard” we would have a round of cocktails while sitting on the stone patio, then line up at the buffet table for potato salad, sliced tomatoes, baked beans, buttered hot dog rolls, etc. Every family visit was made a special occasion by my parents, but there were two times each year that everyone looked forward to. Suzanne and Frank Maddox and their children returned from their home for a visit that always became a family get-together. And every August, Uncle Will and Aunt Celeste Hennessy and their four daughters would visit from Wilmington, Del., for a few days bringing a car full of treats and delicacies. Cool or rainy weather meant the feast was moved indoors. There were many days that we watched the sun setting over South mountain while sitting in the valley room.

All of these visits continued for years. Dad sold the TV/radio store in Bethesda c1951 and we moved to the cabin to live year-round soon after. The grandchildren of my parents must all have their own memories of visits to the cabin. Their number grew over the years to, by my count, twenty-two in all. Despite the large number, Granny and Paw-Paw were able to make each one of them feel special. One particular treat for visiting grandchildren was for Granny to send them up the hill to pick ripe blueberries which she would make into blueberry pancakes. That’s an example of what my Mother was like.

Dad was a special man. Two of his strongest characteristics were his integrity and his sense of humor. I’ll give an example of each trait. I used to tag along with Dad on his local business trips. One time, during WWII, Dad made a delivery of several cartons of radio tubes under a government contract he had bid on. I learned that he won the bid because his price was at-cost. I asked him why he didn’t include some money for profit and he said simply, that this was his contribution to the war effort. One clever prank that he pulled on a visiting friend involved some target practice behind the cabin. I watched him as he loaded a.22 nine-shot revolver with two different cartridges — one, a usual.22 slug, and the other a “rat shot,” a miniature shotgun shell, filled with tiny pellets. He loaded the gun with the cartridges in alternate chambers and we went out to join the waiting sucker – I mean “guest” – to fire off a few rounds. To complete the charade, Dad fixed a small piece of metal hanging on a string as our target. Let me point out that at ten paces it would be really difficult to hit a two inch wide target with a revolver. But with rat shot it would be almost impossible to miss. So they took turns firing, the guest just missing every shot, and Dad causing the hanging target to swing every time. I’m sure that friend of Dad’s went away with the impression that Dad was the best shot this side of Buffalo Bill. There is one thing I haven’t forgiven my Father for. When he was living in St. Louis many years before, an old chef gave Dad a recipe for BBQ sauce but he made him promise not to give it to anyone else. Well, Dad took that recipe to the grave rather than break his word. That’s too bad because I sure could use it to improve my BBQs.

I have my own memories of cabin life. I particularly enjoyed exploring the woods below the cabin. A telescope gave me a way of exploring the sky, and also to tell time by the clock in the white-spired Lutheran church in Middletown, three miles distant. I slept by a window facing west. On a clear night, I could actually see stars set over South mountain. I knew that was a special experience even then. And, yes, the sound of raindrops falling on a tin roof does lull you to sleep.

Discount Kitchen Appliances Are Not Everything But They Are Something

A house is only a home after you have loaded it with stuff. In many ways the shell of your life is your home filling it with a wide variety of new kitchen appliances and the furniture of your choice is what makes it truly your own. That is why so many people spend so long considering the décor of their homes. It is a cultural need for humans to fill the places they live with things that they feel truly represent them. Collecting all of that stuff can take years for some folks and obviously in a lifetime we will have a large amount of turn over as discount home furniture is changed over and new items are brought in to replace worn and torn older pieces.

Things are important. People use possessions to establish status and to fill the time between work and sleep with something other than internal angst. In the last few decades much has been made of the consumer culture and how it has torn apart our country and quite possibly our planet. If you ask me though, consumer culture is our salvation in many ways. Buying a new couch from a discount home furniture website is not the thing that should define your life but is nice for underlining the specifics of the human relationships and personal feelings that accompany it. Also, we all have to sit on something.

That last sentence is honestly no joke. We all have to be somewhere and our “things”, a dirty word to some, are one of the elements makes “being” into “living.” Self help quote marks aside there is no reason that we as a people should ever repent for feeling we want or, yes in some cases, need new kitchen appliances. Can openers break, am I to quit soup in favor of some sort of monk-like existence with hardly a possession in sight?

No, I like buying discount home furniture. A lot of it. It does not make me a bad person. I am not flippantly wasting money or the items themselves. I am simply building a life for myself. Part of that life is stuff. People happen to like stuff and there is nothing we have to apologize in that. Be your interests in books, vintage t-shirts, or discount Cuisinart blenders, toasters, and fondue sets. If there is something wrong with buying goods I do not want to be right. For the economy’s sake you don’t either.

Why Most People Consider Bunk Beds

After a tiring day, majority of people would like to rest to the privacy and comfort of their rooms. Individuals can lie around and relax in their beautiful comfy beds. It’s not a surprise why beds are one of the very famous and very useful furniture of the house. Different individuals are potty about different choices available. However when selecting a bed, majority will consider the design, the comfort and the space it save. These days, a lot of people will go for bunk beds, especially for children’s bedrooms.

A bunk bed is your perfect choice considering space efficiency. This form is simple, yet offers ample of advantages. What is a bunk bed? These are space saving options that allow one bed to be supported above the other, through a particularly designed frame. The bed frame is stable enough to support the beds so the two individuals can lounge comfortably and with satisfaction in the same perpendicular space.

Making use of a double-deck bed is an excellent way to make best use of a bedroom’s area. This type of bed has a ladder, for you to reach the top bunk. This ladder can be attached to the frame or it can be separated. You can see lots of these beds in children’s bedrooms, colleges and universities residence halls, trains and ships.

There is also a type of bunk that is popular for children nowadays and it is the one that comes with a tent. This type is known as tent bunk bed. This kind is identical to the ordinary bunk bed or double-deck, only that it has a fabric material covering over it. This fabric covers the entire frame and this additional fabric is mainly for artistic purposes, this type is great for children.

Though this type of bed is mostly seen in kids’ rooms, there are also adults and teenagers love using this kind of bed. Numbers of teenagers find it irresistible as there are various styles and colors to choose from. Apart from the fact that it saves your bedroom’s space, it is the kind of bed that makes your room more enticing.

Bunk beds are very ideal for every home, particularly if there are two people sleeping in a single room. Both of you will surely have a good night sleep. You can find many varieties in most stores but online shops are the best place for price shopping.

Call Me A Male Chauvinist

I was reading an article about Kobe, Japan and came across a very telling report which gives an incite in to the dangerous territory we are going as a species. I do not think this attitude is limited to Kobe or Japan, but rather is global. The point of this article is to ask; are you helping the world, or part of the problem?

The following sections of the article on Kobe** basically say it is wrong that women should stay at home and raise their own children.

“…much remains to be done in Kobe and in Japan overall.” i.e., things are wrong and must change.

“…the employment trajectory by age shows radical differences between men and women. At ages 20-24 about 70 percent of both males and females are employed. By ages 25-29, however, male employment jumps to over 90 percent, while female employment falls to less than 40 percent. Female employment ratios rise again to about 50 percent for the population 40-50″

Of course female employment will drop at the age that most women are having children so they can stay at home and raise their children. When the kids are old enough, the women return to work. The statistics only prove that women have the freedom to work, but if they choose to have children, they also choose to accept the responsibility of raising them. When that job is done, they return back to the workforce.

I have to ask, what is wrong with this? Women insist on equality with men and the freedom to work their whole life, while hiring a nanny or putting their infants in day care, leaving their children to be raised during the most delicate formative years by other people.

Yet, many of these women will most likely be seeing a therapist to deal with abandonment issues stemming from childhood or complaining about how hard it is to find an emotionally balanced man. How can the people who support these statistics as improper and in need of change not also see the immense number of people who are suffering emotionally as young and mature adults due to the lack of parental contact while growing up.

A child needs its mother, even more than its father, to develop into a secure and emotionally balanced adult. We can see the vast numbers of people who do not have that emotional stability. However, I have found in countries like Panama for instance, where I am living now, the people are very self-confident and comfortable with themselves. People from cultures such as in Latin America where the mother stays at home and raises the children, do not suffer nearly as much from the weak or fearful characteristics of Americans and other western countries.

We cannot deny nature. Changing how people live and what a woman does is not going to improve our life and world when those changes go against the laws of nature. Humans are probably the weakest species on the planet when it comes to how long it takes for us to become self sufficient. By denying a child its need of a mother during those years, that child will unquestionably develop emotional issues.

If you are dealing with emotional issues such as fear of commitment, attachment, low self-esteem, fear of involvement or approaching people, among many other issues, I ask you to consider one thing; In your search for the cause and cure of your condition, are you considering if you are working towards the eradication of this disease, or its propagation.